Everyone says that being a teenager is the best time of your life, but I think it's also the most difficult, most important and most adventurous.
It has to be difficult, it's growing up from a child to an adult and to do that you have to learn, mature and grow into someone stronger than what you were. You leave behind a lot of shit that brought you down and you move on and become stronger, and its good. Now, some people may want to give up, i know people who do, but why hsould you? It's life testing you to make sure you can cope with adulthood, when you'll probably become a parent and then have to guide your child through the same shit you went through. Whatever you learn a a teenager sticks with you.
There comes a time when you realise what never mattered, what does now and what always will, and when you've got that you're really getting somewhere. The little bitches that try and bring you down, so fuck. Who are they to say you aren't amazing in your own way? Who are they to say you're les of a person than they are? They can't, and soon enough they'll be gone and if thats how they wanna get through life, fuck them.
Teenage years are the most adventurous because lets face it, breaking the rules is a lot more fun. Staying out late, drinking too much, trying new things; drugs, sex and who knows what else, its the time for fun and you might as well take it.
When i see people so tied down as a teenager it kinda makes me sad, why would you want that do young? Don't get me wrong there was a time when I wanted that, but it was only cos I wanted him, and then I realised why the fuck should I be with one person through the best years of my life? HIGH SCHOOLS FOR FINDING YOUR BRIDESMAIDS, NOT YOUR HUSBAND. and I totally think thats right.
It's about finding the best friends that are gonna be with you through everything, and already have. They've been with you through the awkward moody stage and still love you, so that counts for a lot. If you can get through teenage bitchiness, you can get through anything. If someone wants to stay with the same person forever since they're like 15, fair enough to them, but its just not for me. What I dont get though, is if you love each other that much, you'll still love each other in 5 years time when it can work better and you've got the fun outta your system.
people say you cant fall in love at say, 15, but I say fuck them. Who is anyone else to tell you how you feel? How could they possibly know if its real or not? Noone can, not even us, only time can tell. The best thing about falling in love young, is realising your mistakes young. That way you wont do it again, you learn, you mature and you gather what you want more. That way in a few years time things can work so much better... at least thats what I think!
So yeah, fuck everyon elses opinions. Don't let any bitches bring you down, don't let any boys break your heart, don't let anyone tell you what to do, and don't let any best friends slip away. Just live and laugh and have as much fun as you possibly can <3
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