Advice

My older cousin is probably the most inspirational person in my life. The best thing she ever told me was "don't let a guy get the best of, they'll only break your heart." At the time I was thirteen, and pretty naive towards life I reckon. Looking back on it, I agreed with her then but I never fully understood what she meant behind it? I never understood what heartbreak was, nor did I understand what "letting someone get the best of you was." Sure, I thought I did. When I was thirteen I had my first glimpse of heartbreak I guess, but it wasn't anything that would damage me for life. It was me being young and stupid, and looking for something that never really exsisted.

I never knew that getting close to someone could ruin you. How would I know that? Girl's were bitches and boys were cute, but that's as far as it went. All my best friends were guys at this point, I was surrounded by them all the time and I never really thought any different. I wish I could go back and have the same people in my life in the exact same way I did then, it was far easier.

So a little advice for anyone? "Never let a guy get the best of you, he'll only break your heart."